“Why the outwardly ‘perfect’ student, with a 4.8 GPA, 1580 SAT, and every accolade, often struggles in selective college admissions, and what really makes a difference.”

The first month of college can feel like a rollercoaster—and that’s completely normal. In this follow-up to The Quiet House, former admissions officer Ronnie Burnett shares honest, practical advice to help students navigate uncertainty, build new rhythms, and begin becoming who they are meant to be. This post is for every freshman learning to find their footing and every parent learning how to let go.

It happens between the dorm room hug and the long drive home. You planned for this moment for 18 years, but no one prepares you for the quiet that follows.